Developing help needed

Hi everyone.
Background: I have my own dedicated server, a Qnap NAS. Today I host 3 different domain names on that server.
I have been using Dreamweawer and other programs for the last 20 years. Now I am looking to build a completely new platform and to integrate all the three different domains in to one plus add some extra, mainly e-shops and real estate rentals.
Wordpress came up as an alternative, so i have been testing it for a week now. It is said that WordPress is amazingly flexible and adaptive. I do not agree on that since doing html code probalyl is the only way to get 100% programming freedom. There is a function where you can add php or html code, but did not check that out yet.
Anyway, programs like Joomla and WordPress does speed up the progress significantly and many of the existing plugins is of great help
Saying that, I experience problems that I can not solve. Probably because WordPress is upsidedown to my normal html environment. I know that will change once the idea of WordPress completely is assimilated. BUT, I do not have time for that and do not want to make mistakes on the road to the goal.
So, anyone here that might consider helping me, via email, Skype or a remote desktop connection? It should not be difficult since I do have more than basic understanding of computers and web site programming.
I am willing to, of course pay for the services. Much work in the beginning but help would bee needing for a long future to come. Also, if you are an SEO expert there will be lots more to be done, also for a long future to come.
So why do i go into all this problem of doing most things by myself. I feel that I must have the capability and understanding to maintain the system without being dependent of any one else. It is a question of security and stability.
Put my hope in to this forum and followers.