sigh. so turns out something was broken with my wordpress install. even after i downloaded the customized theme you sent me and ran it, it kept showing the same problems. so i figured, this probably isn’t a theme issue at all. so i deleted the wordpress database altogether and reinstalled everything; then installed the ving and made a new child theme. now it works. but now i have to do all my customizations all over again :'( because deleting the database seemed to have permanently deleted my old child theme :'( so i can’t retrieve the original customizations.
glad we figured out the issue and thanks to both of you for so much help and patience! i am all the time more and more impressed by the online programming communities! you guys are awesome! this whole mess surely taught me a lot. ??
there is one more thing i need to ask about the functions.php enqueing but i’m wondering whether this is the right thread for this. if it’s ok by you guys, i’ll post my question. otherwise i’ll try to find a more generic wordpress forum.
have a great day guys!