@jeffmatson, please don’t lose motivation. For all the backlash, there are many who appreciate the tools, but you won’t hear from them because things usually just chug along without issue and are taken for granted.
Not to dismiss the inconvenience some people seem to have been caused, but it a lesson that is drummed into all of us who use plugins of any kind in WP in any kind of professional capacity, we know that it is fundamental to stability of the site that before updating plugins of any kind, a backup should be taken immediately before updating.
There is also a responsibility on the administrators of a website to ensure that they perform their updates to plugins at a time when it is least likely to impact their own, or their clients businesses, and updates should be performed at the appropriate time with the understanding that things do sometimes go wrong.
For business critical sites it is quite frankly irresponsible of the site administrator to simply click the update button and assume that it will be perfect every single time for all of the plugins they use.
Professional site administrators for critical operations websites wouldn’t even dream of updating plugins on a production site, they would do it in a development environment and test things before pushing the changes live.
Yes, you made an unfortunate error, but the reaction by some people has been way over the top.
I know I already thanked you, and I won’t belabor the point any further, but I am certain I’m not the only person who understands that things do on occasion go a bit wrong, and that it is not the end of the world, and also that we all have a responsibility to take our own precautions before making changes to our websites.
The main thing is that you reacted very quickly, and fixed the error within hours, which was the responsible thing to do.