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Looks like you figured it out to me, as your picture is right there. ??

No i didnt, its not showing on my blog

You didn’t say you wanted it on your blog. Where do you want it to appear?

Basically, you need to edit your theme and include a call to the get_avatar function to get and display your picture.

So what does a guy like me do who knows nothing of all thsi coding stuff? I also want a theme where i can use a square that stretches over 2 side bars. Can you look at my blog and tell me how to get the slideshow from crossing over the side bar? When i edit the photo dimensions in my cp nothing happens. https://ruansfedererblog.com/

So what does a guy like me do who knows nothing of all thsi coding stuff?

You have several possible options:
a) Learn how to do it yourself.
b) Find somebody else that will do it for you.
c) Find another theme that does what you want already.
d) Ask the designer of the theme to do it for you.
e) Find a plugin that does what you want.
f) Find a plugin author to do it for you.

These are variations on a theme, of course. The gist of it is that you can either learn how to do it yourself, or you can have somebody else do it. I’m perfectly willing to answer questions if you want to learn how to do it yourself, but the questions need to be rather specific for me to understand what it is that you actually want to do.

If you want somebody to do it for you, then there’s the wp-pro mailing list, where you might be able to find somebody who can do that.