Thanks for reaching out. As I can see the AdSense code snippet placed on your site I suspect there is no issue, with your AdSense account status remaining in a pending stage. It can take some time for the AdSense team to review accounts and sites so this is not unusual after 4 days to be awaiting approval. If you’d like to share your Site Health information here or privately via this form I can check this, although this is something you can check yourself by visiting your AdSense account or reviewing your Site Health information on your site (Tools > Site Kit > Info > Site Kit > AdSense account status).
In relation to the email I suspect this may be an automated email when your account or site is not approved, while me be ignored. Alternatively it may be an alert if your site needs action before approval. As we can only assist with Site Kit queries the product experts at the AdSense Help Center should be able to assist better than we can here if you want to direct this particular query there.
Feel free to share your Site Health information as requested above if you do want me to confirm the pending status.