@merchantkitty I’m really sorry you are having a problem with WordPress and as this topic has gone all over the place I’m going to close it with a couple of points.
First item:
Jan Dembowski has just argued with you this who entire post because clearly you are an idiot.
Argued? Treated him like an idiot? I’m very sorry you feel that way but that simply never happened. At all. Nope. Not once. ??
jdwebb had or has a problem with the Visual Editor and I went to great lengths to try and assist him in this topic. It didn’t work out for him and that’s too bad. I really wanted to read that it worked out but there are limits to what you can accomplish via the forums.
Second item:
Like everyone here I’m a volunteer and I provide support on my own free time. I do it because I want to and it’s cool to help strangers that way. Everyone here is a volunteer including yourself.
Just as I am sure you do, I’d appreciate it if you’d give me and other volunteers the benefit of the doubt and NOT cast aspersions at other volunteers. It’s not very nice and wont really inspire others to assist you.