Publicize versus Manually Sharing to FB

Things are basically working well between my blog and facebook page. The one problem is that if I leave Publicize (from jetpack I believe) checked then the new post is automatically sent to my fb page when I click Publish. This of course is what is supposed to happen. However, several times fb (or Publicize) has made incredibly bad and embarrassing choices about the picture to accompany the post on the fb page. It has defaulted to one letter of the logo–it looks stupid. An alternative is to uncheck Publicize and then manually share the new post–using seo and the facebook developers tool (https://developers.facebook.com/tools/debug/) I can choose my picture, scrape, and then test that everything looks right before I manually share, and then repeat until i am satisfied.

My question is: is it possible to see what Publicize is going to look like on fb before I hit Publish using Publicize. Evidently if I don’t use Publicize when I Publish, then the opportunity to use it is lost and I must manually share.

Thanks for any education ??

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