Embed video start automatically

I am trying to stop the video from playing automatically at loading time. I have added “autostart=”false” within the embed tag of the existing code, but it’s just doesn’t work, i have tried <param name=”autoplay” value=”false” /> autostart=”false” in embed code. it is also not working..

So please please please help me.

Could anyone shed some light on my issue? Thanks a lot.
below is the code:

<object id=”flashObj” width=”640″ height=”390″ classid=”clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000″ codebase=”https://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=9,0,47,0″&gt;
<param name=”movie” value=”https://c.brightcove.com/services/viewer/federated_f9?isSlim=1&#8243; />
<param name=”bgcolor” value=”#FFFFFF” />
<param name=”flashVars” value=”videoId=3987130051001&playerID=2857340257001&playerKey=AQ~~,AAAAB_0PyCk~,_pBlGqvGs07peliXKyUvG14oYtXJQN9_&domain=embed&dynamicStreaming=true” />
<param name=”base” value=”https://admin.brightcove.com&#8221; />
<param name=”seamlesstabbing” value=”false” />
<param name=”allowFullScreen” value=”true” />
<param name=”swLiveConnect” value=”true” />
<param name=”allowScriptAccess” value=”always” />
<embed src=”https://c.brightcove.com/services/viewer/federated_f9?isSlim=1&#8243; bgcolor=”#FFFFFF” flashVars=”videoId=3987130051001&playerID=2857340257001&playerKey=AQ~~,AAAAB_0PyCk~,_pBlGqvGs07peliXKyUvG14oYtXJQN9_&domain=embed&dynamicStreaming=true” base=”https://admin.brightcove.com&#8221; name=”flashObj” width=”640″ height=”390″ seamlesstabbing=”false” type=”application/x-shockwave-flash” allowFullScreen=”true” swLiveConnect=”true” allowScriptAccess=”always” pluginspage=”https://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash”&gt;
</embed>
</object>