Very slow with multiple attributes (taxonomies)

Hi!
I’m building a webstore with electronics and household appliances.
Therefore I’m having quite a number of product attributes. To be precise: 1,196 total.
And this number leads me to over 9000 (yeah really) wp_term_taxonomies.
Which turns my site very slow. Very very slow. 2 or 3 seconds per page load.

I would take any tips for speeding up my site.
And yes. I did all the memcaching, opcoding etc.

I figured out that the problem is not database-related.
Even thou it takes up to 500 —?1000 mysql queries per page they’re all done within 0,03 seconds maximum. And all the CPU time goes for something else…

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