dont install plugins activated on our site without permissions??

When you install, activate, or update Jetpack, we do not install any other plugin without your permission.

When a Jetpack update includes a new module, we do indeed automatically activate it so you don’t have to go through a second activation step to start using the new feature.
However, if that feature significantly modifies the look of your site, we do not activate it by default, and leave you the opportunity to do it yourself later on.

In any case, you’re always in total control of what’s displayed on your site: you can activate and deactivate all Jetpack modules by going to the Jetpack menu in your dashboard.

I hope this clarifies things a bit.

Thank you Jeremy for always being there with a great an legitimate response. I have managed to get Jetpack working really well lately, i do have a few other plugins to shoot over to you that dont work well.
Hope message didnt seem hostile, it wasnt meant to be.
The wordpress additional plugin being installed did cause some conflict with other plugins in use, which cause our team to pull out their hair trying to find out why.
Also it isnt using as many resources on dedicated, especially if using a cdn for css and java.

once again thanks for your time.