Videos list with player from videos embeded in posts

Hi all, I have a website where we post a lot of youtube videos. Right now we use Vixy Youtube Embed plugin to easily embed the videos in a post and tagged with category “video”.

The Problem we are running into is our category page loads very slow even with just 5 videos being loaded per page.

The Solution we are looking for is similar to the Tubepress plugin. This plugin displays a nice list of all your youtube channel uploads with a player at the top and when you click on a thumb the video loads in the player at the top. This plugin only allows you to pull your data from Youtube.

I am looking for a plugin or hack that can do the same thing but for my video posts. I have searched high and low and have not found anything yet. If anyone knows of a plugin that could do this or a workaround that would be great!