Flash Video Player by Joshua Eldridge

I’m using the Flash Video Player by Joshua Eldridge.The plug in works fine without any issues but I need to know how (if possible) to toggle on or off autostart when I call a video in a page or post. There is a switch for turning autostart on or off in the plug in configuration settings but it’s a universal setting for all videos and I’d like to turn it off for some.The standard code for calling a video in a page or post is
[flashvideo file=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tjKv3hPbCrI /] and I have played around by adding a /autostart=no and such things, and unfortunately it doesn’t look like the author is supporting the plug in any longer because the support forums are not accessible, take down etc. If there are any other users of this plugin who have figured this out I’d be appreciative.

Thanks in advance,

Dan