Hello @cpmariap,
I’m a CF7 user and have it installed in 9 out of 10 sites. I think I know it well enough to try to help other users in these forums. But in all this time I have experience several issues that many times caused me headaches. Believe me, I understand your frustration. I’ve felt the same way at times when things don’t work out the way I expect.
Sometimes it is a bug in the plugin, but other times it can be a bad configuration of the server or incompatibilities with other plugins or themes. Although it is hard to accept, many times we produce the problem ourselves. Consider this, do you think that more than 5 million users would be using this plugin if it really didn’t work?
The most common problems with CF7 are related to email or reCAPTCHA, but most of the time this is not an issue produced by CF7, since this is not controlled by the plugin itself, but by the server, a third party service or by another plugin (for example, a cookie one) that must be properly configured to work.
That’s why users are always asked to test by changing to the default theme and temporarily disabling the other plugins. This is the fastest way to determine where the problem is occurring. Have you done the pertinent tests to try to determine what is causing the issue?
Best regards,
Yordan.